Christy: Alleged Ivey Victim Says Relationship Was “Fully Consensual”

by Ceci Christy 23

June 12th, 2013 National, News

On Monday, Suzette Moran issued a public statement detailing the consensual sexual relationship she had with coach Mitch Ivey beginning when she was 16 and he was 33.  This story is not new to the swimming community.

In 1993, on Outside the Lines, ESPN detailed Mr. Ivey’s habitual sexual abuse of his underage club level swimmers.  ESPN interviewed Ms. Moran who described her relationship with Mr. Ivey.  In 1983, she was 16 and he was 33 when the sexual relationship began. They were engaged when she was 17, but Ms. Moran ended the engagement during her freshman year at UCLA.  In this episode, ESPN did not reveal all of the details of Ms. Moran’s story.

We spoke with Ms. Moran today and she candidly filled in those details.  In 1983, when she was 16 she swam at the San Ramon Valley Swim Club under Andy King.  Mitch Ivey was not Ms. Moran’s coach at the time the relationship began.  Ms. Moran wants us to understand that she pursued Mr. Ivey.  She initiated the relationship.  He did not coerce her or ask her not to tell anyone.  In fact, they took no precautions.  “Everyone knew, but looked the other way.”  Ironically, Andy King “stood up to her and said, ‘you don’t know what you are doing, Suzette’.”  That single admonishment was the extent of anyone’s efforts to end or prevent the affair.

But, Ms. Moran is adamant that she did know what she was doing.  Seven months into the affair, she moved to Concord Pleasant Hill Swim Club where Mr. Ivey coached and continued their relationship.  From the beginning, their affair was “fully consensual,” and she “never felt forced to do anything.”  In fact, her parents were aware of the relationship and allowed it to continue with parameters.  Ms. Moran admits that if her parents had not allowed her to continue her involvement with him, she probably would have run away and married him.  But her mother wanted to keep her daughter close and the lines of communication open with the daughter she loved. 

Ms. Moran holds herself completely accountable for her actions and does not see herself as a victim.  She says she never felt she should report their sexual relationship.  As she was discussing the affair, she admits she was a stubborn, mature 16-year-old, but now realizes that the other girls who had affairs with Mr. Ivey may not have been as stubborn or mature.  Those affairs may not have been consensual.  And, regardless of her maturity level and consent, Ms. Moran recognizes that a 33-year-old coach having sex with a 16-year-old swimmer is wrong and constitutes abuse.

For these reasons, Ms. Moran decided to speak publicly about her past.  Even though a substantial amount of evidence shows that many in the swimming world, including USA Swimming, have known her story for some time.

According to ESPN reporting and numerous early 1990 newspaper articles, Mr. Ivey’s pattern of having sexual relationships with his underage swimmers was common knowledge.  Interviews with University of Florida administrators made clear that Mr. Ivey’s reputation preceded him.  Club coaches also were aware of Mr. Ivey’s alleged sexual abuse.  Additionally, a University of Florida swimmer formally accused Mr. Ivey of verbal sexual abuse resulting in an investigation by the school.  But it was not until ESPN aired its episode that the school fired Mr. Ivey. 

After losing his position at Florida for sexual abuse of his former athletes, he continued coaching at the Trinity Preparatory School and Trinity Prep Aquatics in Winter Park, Florida.

Ms. Moran says it is disturbing to her that USA Swimming has not tried to contact her at any point over the years.  “It is clear that they made no effort to locate me.”  According to Ms. Moran, no one from USA Swimming contacted her in the 1990’s or during the 2011 investigation of Mr. Ivey.

While researching the Ivey piece in 1993, Bob Ley, the host of Outside the Lines, stated, “[i]t was all too easy to find cases alleging sexual abuse between minors and coaches and sexual misconduct.”  While the ESPN researchers easily located Mr. Ivey’s victims in 1993, USA Swimming has stated that their investigation of Mr. Ivey in 2011 concluded that “there was not enough evidence to move forward with” a hearing, but “the case remains open.” 

Ms. Moran now asks “Congress to step in and investigate USA Swimming.”   Kelley Currin made this same request after Rick Curl’s sentencing hearing in May this year.  They contend that USA Swimming allowed Mr. Ivey and Mr. Curl to continue coaching while knowing these men had sexual relationships with them when they were minors.   

USA Swimming is now encouraging “any individuals with first-hand information about any inappropriate conduct to come forward and share their story directly with USA Swimming’s Director of Safe Sport” if an “inappropriate relationship with an athlete took place when Mr. Ivey was a coach member” of USA Swimming.  Given the investigative resources of the Safe Sport office, maybe it is time for that office to contact the individual it now conclusively knows has this first-hand information.

Full unedited statements from Ms. Moran and her attorney, Robert Allard, plus USA Swimming, are below.

Suzette Moran’s victim statement:

“It has come to my attention that over the past few years USA Swimming has been investigating swim coaches for misconduct. After reading articles about various coaches, it appears that USA Swimming is having a difficult time understanding how to conduct comprehensive investigations. I was recently advised that they have cleared Mitch Ivey from any inappropriate actions. It seems that once again they have overlooked several pieces of evidence.

USA Swimming has never contacted me in regards to their investigation of Mitch Ivey. While I do not see myself as a victim, the fact remains that I started having a relationship with Mitch Ivey at 16 and it continued for several years. The relationship was consensual, and completely open to everyone in USA Swimming, family, and friends. It crossed the world of USA Swimming with the ESPN special that I appeared in back in the early 90’s.

The fact that USA Swimming closed their file without trying to contact me is disturbing. It is reminiscent of the Catholic Church. I am very easily located via Facebook, Linkedin, Spokeo, Classmates, and my high school. ESPN found me through the UCLA Athletic Department. It is clear that they made no effort to locate me.

It saddens me that after all of the controversy, Mitch has made the choice to continue to coach, and a team has hired him. It concerns me that the entity who should be investigating and protecting swimmers from predators is still not doing their job, even after such coaches as Andy King and Rick Curl have been incarcerated.

I am publicly asking for Congress to step in and investigate USA Swimming.”

Robert Allard’s statement:

“the leadership at USA Swimming continues to demonstrate that is is utterly incapable of resolving addressing the rampant sexual abuse issue within its ranks.” Allard pointed to a 2010 email from USA Swimming’s Technical Vice President David Berkoff which identifies Ivey and Moran by name as an example of an improper sexual relationship between a coach and his minor swimmer.

“There is absolutely no excuse for USA Swimming to not interview Ms. Moran. We located her with little effort. In our view, USA Swimming’s leadership doesn’t want to know the truth because it doesn’t care about the truth. These leaders would rather boast about what have proven to us to be worthless rules and 1-800 numbers that they have developed and falsely hold themselves out as champions of sexual abuse victims. These leaders have repeatedly failed the sexual misconduct test and need to remove themselves from office. If they don’t voluntarily resign, Congress should intervene and force them to. This simply has gone on for way too long.”

USA Swimming’s response statement:

USA Swimming has never received a formal complaint with first-hand knowledge of an inappropriate relationship related to former coach member Mitch Ivey, who has not been a member of USA Swimming since 2006.  Still, based on information shared with USA Swimming about Mr. Ivey, an investigation was conducted in 2011.  The investigation included interviews  with 11 individuals, including former Ivey athletes, coach colleagues, and university administrators. At that time, there was not enough evidence to move forward with a National Board of Review hearing but the case remains open.

If an inappropriate relationship with an athlete took place when Mr. Ivey was a coach member of the organization, USA Swimming would encourage any individuals with first-hand information about any inappropriate conduct to come forward and share their story directly with USA Swimming’s Director of Safe Sport. As part of USA Swimming’s commitment to its membership, we strongly encourage anyone with information about a possible Code of Conduct violation to contact us so we can further investigate the claims. The success of our Safe Sport program relies on all of our members, past and present, working with us and being diligent about the safety of our athletes.

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Dr. Morton Green
10 years ago

I was teaching Kinesiology at Long Beach State University, and had both Mitch Ivy and his wife Sharon (an athlete in her own right), in my classes. I also judged diving for the swimming team at Long Beach, so I was involved with the program. I never heard a word about any abuse from anyone, and that includes his wife Sharon. While a Resident at the University of California Medical Center, San Francisco, California, I called Mitch and he invited me and my wife to a swim meet there in Santa Clara. My wife sat next to “Big Ben Davidson,(Football pro played), and she talked with him and we saw his talented daughter swim, and yet there was no mention… Read more »

Curt Altschul
Reply to  Dr. Morton Green
9 years ago

Ben Davidson’s daughter never swam for Mitch Ivey. She did swim in the San Ramon region but, that was, as I recall, in Dublin, CA. She and her sister also had a private coach for several years (I coached in a nearby city and high school). I don’t understand the significance of bringing Davidson or his daughter into the commentary.

In addition, it is my understanding that pedophiles are incurable. No matter what the pathology, it makes no difference. It is HYPOTHESIZED that some pedophiles have incurred a brain injury which decreases their ability to stop impulses. However, NOTHING HAS BEEN PROVEN to substantiate that hypothesis.

According to Discovery.com, “Researchers are using depo-provera, a drug used to treat prostate… Read more »

Chuck Pagano
Reply to  Dr. Morton Green
4 months ago

Wow, you are blaming the parents of the victims and not the coaches who abused their position of authority to groom and have sex with underage girls. The crimes and problems lie with these coaches and only the coaches.

bflogrl8788
11 years ago

I think it’s time to move on!!!! What’s done is done, (a very long time ago.) It’s so amazing to me that you don’t hold Ms. Moran’s parents accountable for any of this? I lived in the apt. complex where they lived, she was not a victim!!!!!! She did enjoy spending his money,
living and eating for free, lounging at the pool etc. Why put all the blame on Mitch Ivey?
Is it because there’s something in it for you? Or looking for your name in lights? Pray for
now, stop beating up the past

coacherik
11 years ago

15-16 is not* ready

coacherik
11 years ago

Rafael, do you coach senior level swimmers at all? If you have, you would be seeing things a little differently. They often do sound mature in many aspects, but listen to more conversations at practice or meets and you will see that’s wrong. 15-16 is ready for anything like a emtional and sexual relationship with a 33 year old grown man.

Swimfollower
11 years ago

Well said, Cate!

easyspeed
11 years ago

Much respect to this woman for taking responsibility for her actions. This whole “abuse” wave of hysteria is officially out of control. Consensual relationships of teen-agers and young coaches is abuse? Victims? Give me a break. While I don’t condone such behavior (which is clearly unethical and punishable), it’s pretty insulting to actual “victims of abuse” to apply that term so loosely.

CATE
Reply to  easyspeed
11 years ago

When minors enter into relationships with adults, the aftermath can be emotionally devastating. The adult is the person that has the emotional power in these types of relationships. Minors are not emotionally equipped to handle this sort of thing and that is why they are victims. The only thing that has been “out of control” in abuse situations has been the shame, lying and coverups. The problem with people not looking at it as a victim situation is that people look at the physical body of the minor which appears fully grown and view them as adults. The emotional part which can’t be visually seen is not. If these “adults” can’t control themselves and make mature choices they shouldn’t have… Read more »

Reply to  CATE
11 years ago

Without giving my opnion on these matter which I will not, I still see some kind of pattern of people reaction

I think people still think these days 14 15 year old are still kids with no emotional control and no liability whatever.. We can´t say that a person with 15 16 year old nowadays is a total klutz regarding important matters..

And I think anyone who really see how society is moving knows that someone with 14 15 years old is probably already more mature and passed through more and had much more info regarding anything (Unless some former ex-president overzealot does what he can to keep people total ignorants) than any “adult” from 20 30 years ago..… Read more »

Jg
Reply to  Rafael Teixeira
11 years ago

I take it you mean Bill Clinton is the ‘ex president over zealot ‘ is doing what he can to keep people total ignorants. ( this means they were already ignorant ).

True he did say -I did not have sex with that woman ‘. And like kissing & feeling breasts , Bill’s activities were not sex.

This week he received Father of the Year award.

Rafael
Reply to  Jg
11 years ago

Actually I was talking about sex (not directly) and it was about a president who thought that the best sex education was giving NO sex education.. except don´t do it.. and some people considered it a sucess despite the skyrocket of unprotected sex of teens and a rise of sexual disease transmitteds and pregnancy of teenagers.. and the group who got this not nice statistic? Obviously the ones whose sex ed was don´t do Sex before growing up and marrying..

I think that is actually much more ignorance (Not having sex ed, not being able to talk of it a home and people still hurraying a guy like this) than being worried if the president betrayed his wife or not.… Read more »

It
Reply to  Jg
11 years ago

Skyrocketing unprotected sex & stds are because teenagers are pretty stupid & hormone driven not because Dubya was president. Over 30 % o teens visit porn sites – they are not innocent angels.

There are very different stats for blacks , Mexicans , Asians & white . There is also abortion & now easy access to the Plan B anti abortificant for all girls over 10. Stats are going to be hard to compare .

It is not just teens – there is an epidemic of meningitis amongst NY gay men even though there is a vaccine available.

Surely it is time to stop blaming Dubya for everything wrong in America & the world.

Ming Boggled
Reply to  CATE
11 years ago

Well said, Cate!

Frtime
Reply to  CATE
8 years ago

Her guardians deemed her mature enough and responsible enough for the relationship and PUBLICLY CONDONED and SUPPORTED it. Sounds as though Ms Moran has a bee in her bonnet. I am not condoning this relationship; however, there’s a lot more than meets the eye in the headlines.
California has a mandated age of consent of 18, BUT … “When the California legislature changed the law … the California Supreme Court interpret that as the legislature saying, ‘Well, juveniles may be able to consent in certain circumstances.'”
Ivey isn’t in prison because Moran isn’t trying to get him there, he isn’t in prison because he shouldn’t be. He could potentially and successfully sue USA Swimming and UofF for their… Read more »

Cate
11 years ago

It is not possible for a minor to have a “consensual” relationship with an adult, male or female. Boys and girls do not have adult decision making capabilities which is why they have people called “adults” to help them make wise choices. That is also why there are laws against this sort of bahavior. As an educator I have seen the ramifications of this and most of the time it is not good.

Frtime
Reply to  Cate
8 years ago

Sorry Cate. The California Supreme Court has already ruled that children can provide consent.

Springbrook
11 years ago

A Google search of Mitch Ivey turns up two photos in this album on the website of the American Swimming Coaches Association: http://www.swimmingcoach.org/ascaphotoalbum.asp

The otherwise-nifty collection of photos also includes two shots of Rick Curl, with no reference to the developments over the past year.

Memo to ASCA — update your photo album.

NONA
Reply to  Springbrook
11 years ago

That photo album is something else: Rick Curl, Mitch Ivey, John Trembley, Paul Bergen…. to be fair though there are also a ton of people in there I’m proud are a part of our sport.

jman
Reply to  Springbrook
11 years ago

LOL. there is a picture of Allison Schmitt on there labeled as Missy Franklin

About Ceci Christy

Ceci Christy is the mother of two teenage daughters and has held the proud title of swim mom for nine years. She volunteers extensively at her daughters' swim club in Atlanta. While being a mother is her most rewarding job, Ceci also serves as a pro bono child advocate in …

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