12 Tips for Parents about College vs. Club Meets

by SwimSwam 39

November 06th, 2016 Club, College, Lifestyle, Opinion

Courtesy of Elizabeth Wickham

After 15 years as an age group swim mom, this is my first year as a parent of a college swimmer. I love both roles, but there are big differences between the two. Especially at swim meets.

I’ve discovered 12 things that are different at college dual meets:

One

Parents sit in the stands above the pool. There is no way down to the pool deck.

Two

They won’t ask you to time.

Three

You aren’t driving your swimmers to meets or staying with them in hotels.

Four

The meets are really, really short.

Five

You can’t ask your swimmer after each event, “How did that feel?” or “What did the coach say?”

Six

It’s rare to see parents make spectacles of themselves.

Seven

There’s no snack bar and no breakfast burritos.

Eight

You can’t check on your swimmer to see if he gets to the blocks on time. Or needs water or gatorade.

Nine

You’ll watch your “too cool teenager” enthusiastically yell during the team cheer.

Ten

Your focus will be on team scores. Not your individual swimmer’s times.

Eleven

No parent volunteers are required. No set up or tear down, either.

Twelve

You won’t even think about talking to the head coach about how your swimmer is doing during a meet.

What differences do you see between college and age group swim meets?

Elizabeth WickhamElizabeth Wickham volunteered for 14 years on her kids’ club team as board member, fundraiser, newsletter editor and “Mrs. meet manager.” She’s a writer with a bachelor of arts degree in editorial journalism from the University of Washington with a long career in public relations, marketing and advertising. Her stories have appeared in newspapers and magazines including the Los Angeles Times, Orange County Parenting and Ladybug. You can read more parenting tips on her blog: http://bleuwater.me/.

AB

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Michelle Lombana
5 years ago

I recently attended my first college meet and it was a different experience from many club meets. I loved the sense of spirit and camaraderie among the parents. They tailgate at some of the big meets and plan a team dinner at conference champs which adds to the fun. They were great about cheering for all of the swimmers and welcoming the freshman parents to the team.

Hastomen
5 years ago

#13 you won’t see your child swim because their school is 2500 miles away.

Michelle Lombana
Reply to  Hastomen
5 years ago

Even 500 miles away is tough – I hope to make it to 2 meets this year. I think it is harder on me than my son though!

Votehillary
5 years ago
SWIMBOY
5 years ago

I am very concerned about No. 7, the rest is great

Reply to  SWIMBOY
5 years ago

No kidding… what kind of savages are hosting these college meets?! How do they attract coaches to sign their teams up without breakfast burritos?

Jen
Reply to  SWIMBOY
5 years ago

I know several college programs where the parents “tailgate” before and/or after swim meets …. typically organized by parents who enjoy good food, drink and camaraderie. While i’m not a good event planner, I’ve been lucky to be around parents who are and who enjoy doing this sort of thing. As for parents not making spectacles of themselves (maybe by being overzealous in cheering for their swimmer?), many parents do very funny things in the stands at college meets … but it’s always in fun and it’s fun to see!

Baldingeagle
5 years ago

Championship meets start at civilized times: 10 or 11 am and 6pm instead of 8:00am.

Kordez
Reply to  Baldingeagle
5 years ago

I’m 15 and i had to get up at 5 AM for a ymca state meet

GB
7 years ago

It’s my third year as a college swim Dad. This beats high school by a ton!!!

7 years ago

#7#11#12 is false… I’m a club coach and a parent of a collegiate swimmer .
But the rest is correct and so nice sitting above the pool and cheering the team on .

7 years ago

#7#11#12 is false… I’m a club coach and a parent of a collegiate swimmer .