Last time aisa kab hua tha jab aap pool mei kisi cheez ke upar pure dedication se kaam kar rahe ho but aap puri tarah fail ho gaye ho?
Mere kahne ka matlab hai ki, aap sach mei pure dedication aur hardwork ke saath kisi cheez ke piche lage ho, use kaafi time tak pursue bhi kiye ho,uske liye sab kuch kiya ho aapne pool mei, aur phir bhi agar us chez mei aap ko success na mil paaye toh?
Adhiktar, hamare “failures” aise hi dikhte hai:
- Hum apne goals ko write down karte hai, risk of falling ki wajah se wary bhi karte hai, kabhi bhi 50% se jyada effort nahi dete hai, puri tarah se committed bhi nhi hote hai, goal par kaam karne ke din aur dates badhate rahte hai…
- Hum practice ke time hard work karte hai, but jab hum finishing line ke paas pahuchte hai tab hume jitna effort dena chhaiye use kam dete hai.
- Hum log starting se hi khudse baat karte hai. Hum in cheezo ko as a failure toh declare kar dete hai but kabhi bhi iske liye koi meaningful step nahi lete hai.
Ye sab koi outright failures nhi hai. Ye sab fades hai. Aur ye sab aapke sabhi aur bade failures se bhi worse hai.
Shayad yaha par koi difference nhi dikh raha hoga.
Fading…Failing?
Aisa sound kar raha hoga jaise ki hum word semantics khel rahe ho.
But yaha par ek serious difference hai try karne aur nhi succeed hone mei (failing), aur na try karke nhi succeed hone mei (fading).
Ek right aur proper failure highly instructive hota hai. Kya kaam karta hai, kya nhi karta hai, aapki strengths kya hai, kitne jaldi improve kar sakte hai, agar failure nhi milega to properly kaise sikhenge aap.
Cruel way mei bolu toh, aisa lagega ki jaise aap failure mei bhi fail ho rahe ho! Ouch.
Secondly, failing ki jagah fading ek false narrative promote karta hai failing ka aur ye aapko apne goals ke liye fully commited rakhta hai.
Aapko yahi nhi pata chalega ki truly successful hone ke liye kya lagta hai kyu ki aap ne kabhi sach mei try hi nhi kiya.
Kabhi bhi full effort nhi diya.
Successful banne ke liye ambiguous rahna padta hai, aur aapke background mei chal rahe stack of fades aapko remind karate rahenge ki aapke paas wo commitment nahi hai jisse app iske through dekh sake.
Apne goals se Fizzling out karte rahne ki wajah se aapko kabhi wo opportunity nhi milti hai jisse aap ye dekh sake ki kitne capable ho.
“Mai sochta hu ki agar ye sab mai apne workouts mei laa paata to kitna kuch kar deta pool mei.”
Properly fail hone ka truth toh ye hai ki:
Ek true, explosive failure aapke full effort ko soak kar leta hai. Ye aapke best version ki maang karta hai. Aur is tarah, isse aap failure kah hi nhi sakte.
Last part ko samjhiye yahi aapki key hai. Ye aapko allow karega ki apne epic fails mei bhi aap kuch honor le sake aur saath hi aapko encourage bhi karega ki aap pursuit of success mei full effort de sake.
Puri Tarike Se Kisi Cheez Ko Karna Aur Phir Fail Hona Jitna Hard Dikhta Hai Usse Kahi Jyada Hota Hai.
Mai samajh sakta hu ki failure ka concept itna terrifying kyu hai. Jo chize hamare liye sabse jyada mean karti hai uske piche jaane ka perceived risk bhi bahot hota hai.
- Agar hamare paas wo ability aur mental fortitude hi nhi hua jo hume hard work aur competition ko conquer karne ke liye chhaiye toh?
- Agar hum log ne apna pura time aur energy kuch majestic accomplish karne mei laga di water mei aur sirf race day ke din nhi kar paaye toh?
Is tarah ka all-in, all-out failure actually mei auite rare hota hai.
Mera matlab hai ki kitni baar aap apne goal ke liye sab kuch de dete hai?
Chance ke liye bhi kuch nhi chhodte hai?
Par is tarah jo aap experience kar rahe hai wo failure nhi fading hai.
Hum big fails ke baare mei bahot worry aur stress karte hai.
Aur isliye, hum fade karte hai.
Apne goals ki taraf positively badhna chhaiye na ki failure ke risk ko dhyaan mei rakh kar. Isse hamara subconscious bhi help karta hai aur better results bhi achieve kar paate hai.
Hamesha ye cheese yaad rakhiye:
- Excellence ko chase karne ka matlab hai ki failure ke risk ko accept karna.
- Fade hone se accha hai fail ho jaao.
- Proper failures aapko quickly successful hone mei bahot help karenge.
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