5 Traits Great Swim Parents Share

by SwimSwam 1

January 30th, 2018 Swim Mom

Courtesy of Elizabeth Wickham

Weve all seen the not-so-great swim parent. You know, the one yelling at their child after a less than perfect swim. The parent who is bragging about their childs amazing feats to anyone who will listen. The parent who is complaining loudly about their childs coach not knowing what hes doing. Or maybe the parent is arguing with a coach to move up their child into the next group before theyre ready.

But what about those other parents? The ones who we dont notice because theyre minding their own business. Their kids are happy, well-adjusted and having fun with their teammates. What do these parents know about being a swim parent that others can learn?

Here are five traits amazing swim parents share:

ONE

Model good behavior.

Kids follow our lead and will behave much like we do. Words are not as important as our actions. Swim parents who are respectful and courteous will most likely have kids youll enjoy being around and want your kids to hang out with.

TWO

Are good listeners.

Great swim parents will wait for their kids to talk about swimming on the car ride home. They wont lecture about what their child needs to work on or failed to do, but will eagerly listen when their child wants to talk. They arent judgmental or overly focused on performance.

THREE

Don’t coach.

These parents understand that their role is the parent. They know that by critiquing their childrens swimming, their kids will feel like theyve let their parents down. Children take our criticism as a failure and think that theyve disappointed us. Being a parent is a better role than the coach. We get to be a cheerleader and envelop our kids with unconditional love.

FOUR

Are supportive of the coach and team.

Parents who excel at swim parenting are involved with the team, help out wherever theyre needed and go to lots of meets and practices. While theyre on deck, theyre not verbally criticizing anyone or comparing their kids to other swimmers.

FIVE

Know it’s their child’s sport.

Swim parents of some of the best swimmers arent overly invested in swimming. They know that its part of the bigger picture of who their child is becoming. They view their child as an entire person, not just as a swimmer. They know that swimming, whether their child makes it to the Olympics or quits after high school, is valuable in teaching life lessons like character, good sportsmanship, fitness and time management.

What other traits do you notice that great swim parents share?

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GAndrews

Solid!!!! Thanks

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