9 Swim Parent Tips on What Makes a Coach Great

Courtesy of Elizabeth Wickham

Coaches come in all sizes, personalities and abilities. Their job is a tough one. They work at dawn, at night and most weekends. They don’t have a ‘normal’ schedule like most of us enjoy. Their job is in a fish bowl where they open themselves up to scrutiny by all of us. When they aren’t on deck, they work on administrative duties like meets, workouts, and structuring the year in macrocycles and mesocycles.

What we observe and many parents comment on is a coach’s style. Since we all have different personalities, we appreciate some styles more than others, and often prefer ones similar to our own. If a coach is talkative, quiet, stoic or fierce, those traits are not the best way to figure out ability. My kids had many different coaches throughout years of aging up and having coaches leave the sport or move. They each had different strengths—and my kids learned something valuable from each and every coach.

A coach can be one of the most influential people in your child’s development. That’s why we all want the best coach for our kids.

Here are nine traits that great coaches have in common:

ONE

Honesty — This goes without saying that good coaches are honest and have integrity. We expect our coaches to be good role models for our kids and walk the walk.

TWO

Passion — A passionate coach loves swimming. If they put 110 percent into their coaching, then they expect your swimmer to care as much, too. Their passion will keep your swimmer trying through all the hard times like missed cuts, injuries or plateaus.

THREE

Communication — Think of all the different people a coach communicates with. Swimmers of all ages and abilities, parents, media, city officials, other coaches and administrators. Good communication skills, writing and speaking, keeps information flowing.

FOUR

Great listener — Being a good listener is part of communication, but also a separate part of coaching. What I’ve read about great coaches is that they listen to what an athlete is saying, and also figure out what they mean.

FIVE

Knowledgeable in the sport — There’s a lot more to coaching than standing at the edge of the pool and saying, “Go.” You want a coach that is always learning, sharing information with other coaches. You want a coach who understands training cycles and that all swimmers are different and have different needs as far as training and tapering.

SIX

Organizational skills — You want a coach who is organized and shows up to practice prepared. A good coach has a plan for the season and the entire year. They appreciate the value of goal setting and will help your child reach their goals.

SEVEN

Caring about the athlete as a person — Great coaches care about their swimmers. They want to help get them into college. They ask how they are doing, not only with swimming, but in school. Coaches understand that swimming teaches life lessons that will help their swimmers become amazing adults in and out of the pool.

EIGHT

Uses failure as life lessons — A coach understands when a swimmer is disappointed with a swim. But, they can use this temporary failure to motivate and teach the swimmer what they can do next time to improve.

NINE

Inspiring — An inspirational coach will motivate your swimmer to be the best he or she can be. They will challenge your swimmers to do more than they thought was possible. Most of all, an inspirational coach will teach your swimmers to believe in themselves.

There are many more traits that make coaches great. What do you think makes a good coach?

Elizabeth WickhamElizabeth Wickham volunteered for 14 years on her kids’ club team as board member, fundraiser, newsletter editor and “Mrs. meet manager.” She’s a writer with a bachelor of arts degree in editorial journalism from the University of Washington with a long career in public relations, marketing and advertising. Her stories have appeared in newspapers and magazines including the Los Angeles Times, Orange County Parenting and Ladybug. You can read more parenting tips on her blog.

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Stuck in the Slow Lane
6 years ago

I wonder if Coach Sarah read this and then became this!

Swimmer1
6 years ago

This is a great article. You nailed it. Never underestimate the power of a great coach!

Stuck in the Slow Lane
Reply to  Swimmer1
6 years ago

Awwww!

Darren Ward
7 years ago

@Jack Baker…Nice Rant, but your off base. What is your opinion based on? What proof do have that 90% of coaches don’t have these qualities. I have been involved in swimming for alomost 40 years … And you are absolutely wrong…you don’t become a great coach by not having these skills…. I know many great coaches at all levels all over the world that exemplify these traits… 10%??? Really???

Bill V.
7 years ago

Swim parents are largely unqualified to comment on what makes a coach great.
That doesn’t stop them, though.

Appreciate a Quality Coach
7 years ago

To many swim clubs meaning “Parent
Run Boards” Do not understand all
that goes into developing a fantastic
coach and club swimmers! Great Coaches are difficult to find!!! Embrace
the talented ones and do not assume
another top notch one is around the
corner who you can compensate less
and will do the job better! Is it about the
Athletes or just numbers and money?!?
The size will continue to grow with a
passionate Coach who is a Leader!!!

SwimFL
7 years ago

My husband and I are masters swimmers and he’s chosen a career in coaching swimming. During a week that doesn’t have a swim meet, he typically works 50+ hours. Add a swim meet and then he’s up to 80 hours. He doesn’t take days off, really thinks about his swimmers’ training and the meaning behind each set. I don’t know how he does it some days. He might be in the category of a coach that gives more yardage, but that yardage isn’t just one speed, one stroke, or one mindset. He isn’t one of those coaches that gives the kids a set and sits down in his chair with a cup of coffee. We both have been around some… Read more »

swimmer/coach
Reply to  SwimFL
7 years ago

I don’t think most people have any idea how many hours coaches put in on and off the deck (and how many of those hours are in the evening and on weekends when most people are home with family). This is one of the big reasons there are so many fewer women coaches than men, IMO. If you are married to someone who works a normal 9-5 schedule, you won’t see your spouse much as a coach. If you have kids? Even harder to manage a coaching schedule. Top that off with helicopter parents that have never swum telling you how to coach or panicking when their kid doesn’t drop time every single meet – sometimes coaches get a little… Read more »

IRONMANWI2011
7 years ago

I have been in swimming for about 30 years (swimming,coaching and parent). I agree with coach JB there are so many great things most coaches do. No SWIMMOM there is no perfect coach but there is also no perfect person or parent so why would you expect a perfect swim coach? But I do have to say that if your coach has passion for the sport and teaching the kids, then they dont have to be GREAT at the other 8 things. And as a parents rather than pointing out and dwelling on the flaws, lets help our coaches become better in those other areas. But coaches if you dont have passion for the sport and your kids then do… Read more »

Appreciative Swim Parent
7 years ago

Wow, I guess we’re spoiled at Eagles Swim Team in Owings Mills, MD. Our head coach, Scott Ward, has all of these qualities and more! I never realized it was so rare; thanks Coach Ward!

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