6 Questions to Ask to Make Yourself a Mentally Tough Swimmer

by Olivier Poirier-Leroy. The following post originally appeared at YourSwimLog.com. Join 16,000 other swimmers and coaches who receive his weekly motivational newsletter (for free) by clicking here.

Michael Phelps is legendary for his steely-eyed focus behind the blocks. Looking down the pool with that focused, angry, thousand yard stare you can see that nothing will shake him from his mental state. He simply exudes mental fortitude to the point that it seems like he’d been born with it.

Here’s the super-dee-duper news:

Mental toughness is earned.

Not something you are gifted via genetics, or given as a kid.

It’s accrued through experience, which means that anyone – if they so choose – can develop it.

After all…

The upsides of mental toughness are practically limitless.

Better swim workouts from unrelenting focus, increased commitment, and a better looking smile. (One of those may or may not be true.)

Things are simply more basic for the mentally fortified athlete– there is no internal debate when offered the opportunity to skip a tough set, or indulge in that second bag of greased-down movie popcorn.

If you’re wondering if you could use some work in becoming a more mentally tough athlete in the pool, here are 6 questions that you should start asking yourself:

1. Am I allowing outside influences, events or circumstances to affect my training?

Life has this funny knack for upsetting our best laid plans. No matter how together we think we have our lives in order, invariably something we didn’t plan on occurs. Whether this “something” was preventable or not at this point doesn’t matter, what does matter is how you are going to deal with the consequences. Will you allow yourself to be distracted by the outside noise? Or will you zero in on hammering out a solid effort and doing what is necessary to get the job done?

2. Am I making a consistent effort to limit negative self-talk?

Negative thinking is a performance killer. Once you think you cannot do something the fight is over. Squash those negative thoughts when they show their nasty little faces. This doesn’t mean that you need to be overly peppy and faux cheerful all the time, rather, it means that you should be constantly vigilant for those nasty little thoughts.

You’ll recognize some of their biggest hits:

  • I can’t do this.
  • If only I felt a little bit better.
  • I’ll start really working hard tomorrow.
  • Etcetera, etcetera.

3. Am I making an effort to be mentally tough day in, and day out?

It’s unfair to expect yourself to show up on race day and suddenly be a swimmer of iron nerves. Mental toughness is built piece by piece, workout by workout, in the trenches of tough workouts and smart life decisions. Are you skulking out of doing the tough sets? Breathing into the walls when coach isn’t looking? Taking 13.4 pulls into the wall when doing freestyle kick? Making showing up to your workouts a habit? It’s moments like that where you have the opportunity to be mentally gangster, so embrace them.

4. Am I willing to accept criticism?

I am talking about constructive criticism here, not the “you stink” type of criticism. Often times swimmers believe that they can get by on their talent and physical prowess alone, and forgo the nitty gritty of honing technique and of developing a murderous work ethic. Keeping an open mind allows you to reap the benefit of the expertise of those around you. (Obviously, be wary of whose criticism you accept by weighing their knowledge against their experience. Listening to a coach? Yes. Your friend who has never swam in his life? Probably not.)

5. Am I willing to brush off setbacks, learn from them, and bounce back hard?

This is where those expanded mental toughness skills will really benefit you.

We both know that there will be times where we screw the proverbial pooch. Perhaps you over-estimated your training, or underestimated your conditioning, there are moments in our swimming careers where our performance falls short of our expectations.

Instead of sagging your shoulders and moping, ruthlessly look at your performance (your coach can give tremendous assistance in this instance as well) and dissect what you did wrong, and more importantly, what you are going to do to make sure that it never, ever happens again.

6. Am I taking full responsibility for my swimming?

Your swimming, your stroke, and the results you earn are yours, so take ownership of it.

Don’t look at the person in the next lane when things don’t go your way. The easy thing to do in a situation where you aren’t successful is to look outside your own preparation, your own work ethic, and instead find blame with the lane lines, the competition, the pool temperature, and so on.

No one else is going to put the meters in for you, ultimately you are going to be the one that dictates your performance, so take complete ownership of the process, and thereby the results as well.

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I just love this: “Will you allow yourself to be distracted by the outside noise? Or will you zero in on hammering out a solid effort and doing what is necessary to get the job done?”


This article sounds like it will give tips on what to do! For example HOW to better think in order to take criticism, such as understanding that it’s not criticism, it’s coaching, and without coaching there is no improvement. That even swimmers such as Michael Phelps and Missy Franklin get regular criticism/coaching.


Read this because I have a very dedicated competitive swimmer in my family. Curious to know if this translates into Questions to Ask to make myself a more mentally tough person in all regards.


Enjoyed reading this as I have a competitive swimmer in my family. As well as wondering what makes her tick, I was curious to know if I could translate 6 Ques

About Olivier Poirier-Leroy

Olivier Poirier-Leroy

Olivier Poirier-Leroy has been involved in competitive swimming for most of his life. Starting off at the age of 6 he was thrown in the water at the local pool for swim lessons and since then has never wanted to get out. A nationally top ranked age grouper as both a …

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