My First Meet

I’ve told the tale of my very last swim meet, but I haven’t recounted the day that started it all, the tale of my very first swim meet. Sometime around 15 years ago I swam my first meet, and let me tell you 8-year-old me did not know what was coming for her. I’m not sure why, but for some reason I had some dramatically wrong assumptions about what exactly happens at a swim meet. Maybe my first coach didn’t really take the time to fill me in, or maybe I just wasn’t really listening when he did. Either way, when I got to the meet that day, I was shocked. So, sit back and relax while I give my account of my first swim meet…

Before we get to that fateful day of my first meet, I’m going to back up a smidge. A year or so before I started swimming, I had a friend who swam. One day, she was late to something because she had a swim meet. Well, as a 7-year-old who knew absolutely nothing about swimming, I thought that was a strange reason to be late to something. She got to be late because she spent the morning meeting up with people at the pool? Absolutely ridiculous. Once I joined the swim team a year or so later, I realized that a swim meet entailed much more than just hanging out with your friends. However, I still was fuzzy on what actually happened.

So, we get to the day of my first swim meet. The biggest misconception that I had was that time didn’t really matter. In my 8-year-old head, I thought that whoever looked the best in the water would win. That’s why there were officials, they were there to judge whose swimming was the prettiest, duh. I truly do not know how I got this notion into my head. Maybe I was confused about the difference between swimming and synchronized swimming?? I have no idea. Obviously, I realized in my first race that time does, in fact, matter quite a lot in swimming. While I thought that time didn’t matter in an individual event, I had it in my head that the only time that time mattered was when you were swimming a relay. The only explanation for this must be that I had seen some Olympic coverage of a relay at some point. I definitely wasn’t wrong that you needed to swim fast on a relay, but I certainly wasn’t right about what I thought about swimming an individual event. I think this might have set the tone for the rest of my swimming career and can explain why I would swim much faster on relays until the day I retired.

I’m really not sure why I was so wrong about what you did at a swim meet, but it only took one meet for me to come to terms with how things really went. Looking back, I am endlessly amused by how terribly wrong I was. Can you imagine, 8-year-old me diving into her first race thinking she needed to have the most beautiful technique in the water? Absolutely ridiculous, haha. I think I was a bit relieved if anything that this wasn’t how things were run, because I knew that it was going to take a long time to make my stroke look halfway decent.  Fifteen years later, I’m really not sure, if my coach actually didn’t fill me in or if I was just a little bit stupid, but maybe take this as a sign to make sure your swimmer is clear on what it will be like the day they go to their first meet.

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NoFlyKick
2 years ago

Up until about 12 y.o. the swimmer with the best technique almost invariably does win.

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2 years ago

Up until about 12 y.o., the swimmer who hit puberty first almost invariably wins.

Ferb
2 years ago

So. you’re saying that at your first meet as an 8-year old, you judged success by how well you executed your technique, rather than purely by your time & place? Sounds to me like you were a smart kid who was well-coached and well-parented.

About Mary Northcutt

Mary Northcutt

Mary is a former 6-time All-American swimmer at Carson-Newman University. She technically was a 50-freestyler, but her favorite events were relays. She wrapped up her swimming career at the 2020 Division II National Championships in March. Since then, she has recently started her first year of Physical Therapy school at …

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