3 Tips About Choosing the Best Team

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September 06th, 2016 Club, College, High School

by Elizabeth Wickham

Long-time USA Swimming officer and So Cal Swimming registration chair Mary Jo Swalley won’t forget one call she received. A parent wanted to know where the Olympic training center was. Mary Jo asked how old her kids were. She was stunned at the answer—two and three years old! She told the parent to find a team close to home.

As a swim parent, we want the best for our kids. We want them to be on the best team, have great friends and a fabulous coach. We expect our kids to put in their best effort, too. Anything less, and we’ll be disappointed. We expect the same from the team and coach, too.

Here are some tips on selecting a team and swim parenting advice from Jim Montrella, former Head Coach Lakewood Aquatic Club, Ohio State University Women’s Swimming and US Olympic coach:

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For 12 and unders:

Let them have fun and be consistent. Let your children live and learn without you living through them. Don’t base your needs above their learning and experience. Allow your children to have fun, grow, learn, develop, improve and progress. Don’t place their participation in a sport as part of your personality, or their performance as your loss or gain.

TWO

13 and over to high school:

Continue to allow them to have fun, but with more commitment. Fun exists, and relationships with their friends are important. Place them in a situation where they have opportunity for success. For example, your swimmer is a summer club swimmer, but shows the ability, talent and interest to swim at the next level. Guide them to a high level club, where they will have fun, but also have accomplishments.

THREE

High school, college and masters:

You’d like to guide them to swim through high school, four years of college, and maybe post graduate swimming and masters. Relationships are so important to them at this time. Don’t let them be the biggest fish in the pond. Put children in a program where they are not in top 1/3 or the bottom 1/3. You want them to see those more accomplished, to see the full spectrum of possibilities.

In college, you don’t want them to be the big dog, but you don’t want them at a school where they won’t make the travel team. You don’t want them in a program where they will quit after two years. You want them to continue to evolve and grow both academically and have athletic success.

How do you choose the best team for your child?

Elizabeth Wickham volunteered for 14 years on her kids’ club team as board member, funElizabeth Wickhamdraiser, newsletter editor and “Mrs. meet manager.” She’s a writer with a bachelor of arts degree in editorial journalism from the University of Washington with a long career in public relations, marketing and advertising. Her stories have appeared in newspapers and magazines including the Los Angeles Times, Orange County Parenting and Ladybug. You can read more parenting tips on her blog.

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TNM
5 years ago

I agree with the 1/3 rule. Definitely put your swimmer in the middle of the depth chart.

Roudy Rowdy
5 years ago

Maybe the swimmers should be choosing a team for themselves?

Military Mom
5 years ago

We are a military family. My children have been on ten different swim teams. Many times, there was only one club at our duty station. When we moved to a larger metropolitan area, there were many different choices. I strongly suggest trying a few teams before making a commitment. Most teams will let your child swim two or three workouts before asking you to commit. Even more importantly, choose the team that is right for YOUR child and family. When we chose a smaller team, many of our friends were shocked and dismayed. “EVERYONE chooses Team X!” we heard. “But, TEAM Y is the best! Look how many swimmers they sent to Trials, Champs, blah, blah, blah.” Consider what the… Read more »

GoldenB
5 years ago

I guess if you are the likes of Ledecky, or Simone, you are out of luck team-wise, and need to train alone like Michael Andrew does! LOL